Choose a quiz or questionnaire
Quizzes are short, free, and need no account to start. Questionnaires go deeper — select whichever matches where you are right now.
Relationship clarity
Hard questions deserve honest answers
Free quizzes for a quick, honest read. In-depth questionnaires with optional AI Analysis when you are ready to go deeper — answer for yourself, or send to a partner for their side too. For self-reflection, self-education, and personal growth.
All of your quiz and questionnaire answers are private, confidential, and encrypted
Quizzes are free to take with no account needed, each with a customized proprietary scoring system
Section 1 of every questionnaire is free
$99 questionnaire unlocks include 3 AI Analysis credits
Membership: $9.99/mo or $99/yr to save your history over time
The process
How Clarity4Couples works
Answer for yourself, or send to a partner
Use it for your own reflection (Self-Use), or send it to your partner and see their perspective once they approve (Partner-Use).
Unlock when ready
Quizzes score instantly and free using each quiz's customized proprietary scoring system — take one without an account, then create a free account to see the detailed breakdown. Pay $99 to unlock a full questionnaire, then answer privately across multiple sessions.
Reflect with AI Analysis
Your $99 unlock includes 3 AI credits — each AI credit can be used to execute one AI Analysis of a questionnaire's customized proprietary AI prompt on the questionnaire's answers for a careful summary of themes, strengths, and reflection prompts.
Save your history with membership
Subscribe monthly ($9.99) or annually ($99) to store completed quizzes and questionnaires and track them over time, including with different partners.
Private, confidential, and encrypted
All of your quiz and questionnaire answers are private, confidential, and encrypted. Only you and partners you approve can see your answers in an unanonymized form. The AI model only sees your answers in an anonymized form.
Two ways to use it
Self-Use or Partner-Use
Self-Use
Answer a quiz or questionnaire yourself, for your own reflection. Track it over time or by partner with an annual subscription.
Partner-Use
Send a Partner quiz or questionnaire to your partner. They answer privately, then choose whether to share their answers back with you.
Quick and free
Start with a quiz
8-10 questions, scored instantly, free to take, and no account needed to start. Use a quiz for your own reflection, or send a Partner quiz to your partner and see their answers once they approve.
Quiz library
Start FreeSelf
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Take this quizSelf-ReflectionFree
First Date Reflection Quiz
A quick, honest gut-check after a first date -- chemistry, character, and any red flags you might be minimizing. Ten questions, about two minutes. No account needed to take it.
Free, instant score
2
Take this quizSelf-ReflectionFree
Dating Readiness Quiz
An honest gut-check on whether now is the right time to date -- or what to work on first if it isn't. Covers emotional recovery, self-sufficiency, self-knowledge, openness to vulnerability, and practical bandwidth.
Free, instant score
3
Take this quizSelf-ReflectionFree
Jealousy Quiz
A focused look at your own patterns around jealousy and insecurity -- what triggers it, how much reassurance settles it, and what you actually do once it's triggered.
Free, instant score
4
Take this quizSelf-ReflectionFree
Feeling Loved Quiz
A focused look at how affection actually reaches you -- words, presence, being understood, practical support, touch, or thoughtful gestures -- and whether one of those stands out clearly or several matter about equally. Eighteen questions, about three to four minutes. No account needed to take it.
Free, instant score
5
Take this quizSelf-ReflectionFree
Codependency Quiz
A focused look at whether you maintain your own boundaries, identity, and sense of worth within a relationship -- independent of how the relationship itself is going.
Free, instant score
Partner
1
Take this quizPartnerFree
Relationship Satisfaction Quiz
A fast, honest pulse-check across four dimensions: emotional connection, trust and security, mutual effort, and alignment on the future -- meant to be retaken every few months as an actual temperature check, not a one-time verdict.
Free, instant score
2
Take this quizPartnerFree
Trust Quiz
A focused check on four specific facets of trust -- reliability, honesty, how it holds up under pressure, and whether vulnerability feels safe. Answer it for yourself, or send it to your partner to hear their honest read.
Free, instant score
3
Take this quizPartnerFree
Desire to Have Kids Quiz
A clear read on where you actually stand on having children -- not just whether, but when, what kind of parent you imagine being, and how much room you have to move. Answer it for yourself, or send it to your partner to compare notes. Eight questions, about two minutes. No account needed to take it.
Free, instant score
Our instruments
Choose your questionnaire
Every questionnaire begins with section 1 for free. Full access is purchased per questionnaire after signup, so you can continue from saved progress when you are ready. Each questionnaire is generally over 80 questions of which a subset in each section are tagged as core questions that you can target answering if you don't want to answer all of the questions. You can choose to work on a questionnaire in core mode which only displays the core questions, or in all mode which displays all of the questions.
Optional AI Analysis
Turn honest answers into clearer themes
Submit your saved answers, then choose whether to use one of your AI credits to generate an encrypted, questionnaire-specific summary using the questionnaire's customized proprietary AI prompt on the answers in the questionnaire. Skipped questions stay skipped, and unchanged submissions do not consume another AI credit for generation of the AI Analysis using the same answers.
3 AI credits included with every $99 questionnaireMore credits: 5 for $49Anonymously sent to AI model
Real sample output
Ideal Partner Questionnaire
Example AI Analysis
What I'm Hearing
What stands out most here is how much precision you've brought to this -- not just naming what you want, but tracing exactly where each need came from and why it matters now.
This is a real AI Analysis generated from one complete, fictional run of the Ideal Partner Questionnaire — not a live demo of your own answers. Your own AI Analysis will reflect your specific responses.
Questionnaire library
Start FreeSelf
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Self-ReflectionSection 1 free
Ideal Partner Questionnaire
A structured way to get specific about what you actually want in a partner — separating real non-negotiables from checklist items you inherited.
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Self-ReflectionSection 1 free
Stay-or-Go Questionnaire
A structured way to work through where you actually stand in your relationship — honestly, on your own, across seventeen sections.
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Self-ReflectionSection 1 free
Dating Engagement Patterns Questionnaire
A structured look at how you actually behave on a date — not who you are looking for, but how you show up once you are there.
Partner
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PartnerSection 1 free
The Unfinished Conversation Questionnaire
A structured way to hear what your relationship was really like from a former partner's side — or to answer it yourself, first.
2
PartnerSection 1 free
Long-Distance Relationship Viability Questionnaire
A structured look at whether a long-distance relationship is actually working — trust at a distance, the plan to close it, and the real constraints.