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Relationship clarity
Hard questions deserve honest answers
Free quizzes for a quick, honest read, and 114 free guides for every stage of a relationship. In-depth questionnaires with optional AI Analysis when you are ready to go deeper — answer for yourself, or send to a partner for their side too. For self-reflection, self-education, and personal growth.
Video 1 of 53, 18 seconds: After the Party, for the Ideal Partner Questionnaire. Words on screen: Everyone asked if I'm seeing anyone. He made me laugh. He always showed up. He never once asked about my day. I know what I loved. Now: what do I actually want? Ideal Partner Questionnaire. A customized AI Analysis of your own answers. Performers are AI-generated.
Your saved quiz and questionnaire answers are private, confidential, and encrypted
Quizzes are free to take with no account needed, each with a customized proprietary scoring system
114 plain-language guides, free to read with no account needed
Section 1 of every questionnaire is free, with no account needed to start
$49 questionnaire unlocks include 3 AI Analysis credits
Membership: $9.99/mo or $49/yr to save your history over time
The process
How Clarity4Couples works
Answer for yourself, or send to a partner
Use it for your own reflection (Self-Use), or send it to your partner and see their perspective once they approve (Partner-Use).
Unlock when ready
Quizzes score instantly and free using each quiz's customized proprietary scoring system — take one without an account, then create a free account to see the detailed breakdown. Pay $49 to unlock a full questionnaire, then answer privately across multiple sessions.
Reflect with AI Analysis
Your $49 unlock includes 3 AI credits — each AI credit can be used to execute one AI Analysis of a questionnaire's customized proprietary AI prompt on the questionnaire's answers for a careful summary of themes, strengths, and reflection prompts.
Save your history with membership
Subscribe monthly ($9.99) or annually ($49) to store completed quizzes and questionnaires and track them over time, including with different partners.
Private, confidential, and encrypted
Your saved quiz and questionnaire answers are private, confidential, and encrypted. The app shows them only to you, and to a partner you choose to share them with. Staff do not browse them; a few authorized people can reach stored answers only when strictly necessary, and that access is limited and recorded. When you ask for an AI Analysis, the model receives your answers without your name, email address, or any identifier for your account; anything you wrote is sent as you wrote it.
Two ways to use it
Self-Use or Partner-Use
Self-Use
Answer a quiz or questionnaire yourself, for your own reflection. Track it over time or by partner with an annual subscription.
Partner-Use
Send a Partner quiz or questionnaire to your partner. They answer privately, then choose whether to share their answers back with you.
Quick and free
Start with a quiz
8-18 questions, scored instantly, free to take, and no account needed to start. Use a quiz for your own reflection, or send a Partner quiz to your partner and see their answers once they approve.
Quiz library
Self
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Take this quizSelf-ReflectionFree
First Date Reflection Quiz
A quick, honest gut-check after a first date -- chemistry, character, and any red flags you might be minimizing. Ten questions, about two minutes. No account needed to take it.
Free, instant score
2
Take this quizSelf-ReflectionFree
Dating Readiness Quiz
An honest gut-check on whether now is the right time to date -- or what to work on first if it isn't. Covers emotional recovery, self-sufficiency, self-knowledge, openness to vulnerability, and practical bandwidth.
Free, instant score
3
Take this quizSelf-ReflectionFree
Jealousy Quiz
A focused look at your own patterns around jealousy and insecurity -- what triggers it, how much reassurance settles it, and what you actually do once it's triggered.
Free, instant score
4
Take this quizSelf-ReflectionFree
Feeling Loved Quiz
A focused look at how affection actually reaches you -- words, presence, being understood, practical support, touch, or thoughtful gestures -- and whether one of those stands out clearly or several matter about equally. Eighteen questions, about three to four minutes. No account needed to take it.
Free, instant score
5
Take this quizSelf-ReflectionFree
Codependency Quiz
A focused look at whether you maintain your own boundaries, identity, and sense of worth within a relationship -- independent of how the relationship itself is going.
Free, instant score
Partner
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Take this quizPartnerFree
Relationship Satisfaction Quiz
A fast, honest pulse-check across four dimensions: emotional connection, trust and security, mutual effort, and alignment on the future -- meant to be retaken every few months as an actual temperature check, not a one-time verdict.
Free, instant score
2
Take this quizPartnerFree
Trust Quiz
A focused check on four specific facets of trust -- reliability, honesty, how it holds up under pressure, and whether vulnerability feels safe. Answer it for yourself, or send it to your partner to hear their honest read.
Free, instant score
3
Take this quizPartnerFree
Desire to Have Kids Quiz
A clear read on where you actually stand on having children -- not just whether, but when, what kind of parent you imagine being, and how much room you have to move. Answer it for yourself, or send it to your partner to compare notes. Eight questions, about two minutes. No account needed to take it.
Free, instant score
Our instruments
Choose your questionnaire
Every questionnaire begins with section 1 for free, and you can answer it before you sign up. Full access is purchased per questionnaire once you have an account, so you can continue from saved progress when you are ready. Each questionnaire is generally over 80 questions of which a subset in each section are tagged as core questions that you can target answering if you don't want to answer all of the questions. You can choose to work on a questionnaire in core mode which only displays the core questions, or in all mode which displays all of the questions.
Optional AI Analysis
Turn honest answers into clearer themes
Submit your saved answers, then choose whether to use one of your AI credits to generate an encrypted, questionnaire-specific summary using the questionnaire's customized proprietary AI prompt on the answers in the questionnaire. Skipped questions stay skipped, and unchanged submissions do not consume another AI credit for generation of the AI Analysis using the same answers.
3 AI credits included with every $49 questionnaireMore credits: 5 for $29Sent to the AI without your name or email
Real sample output
Ideal Partner Questionnaire
- Complete · all 80 questions
- Fictional person
- Unedited
- Written by Claude Opus 5.5
Priya is 33, a software engineer, and has been single for two years, since her four-year relationship with Sameer ended when he took a job in Singapore and she did not go. Her parents have started introducing her to men.
- Names in it
- Sameer: her former partner of four years
- Brendan: an earlier boyfriend
- Meera: a close friend of twelve years
- Amma: her mother
- Vivek, Ashwin and Karthik: three men who met every standard on her list
You said you wanted a concrete list, and you wrote one in real detail: follow-through down to picking up a prescription, curiosity defined as asking a second question, and affection as a hand on the back of your neck while you read.
These are reflection notes written by AI. They are not therapy or counseling, and not a substitute for clinical care.
Your AI Analysis is written by Claude Opus 5.5, an AI model made by Anthropic, running on Amazon Bedrock. Anthropic does not receive the answers we send for your analysis.
A real AI Analysis, shown unedited. Priya is a fictional person written to test this feature, not a customer and not based on one, who answered all 80 questions of the Ideal Partner Questionnaire herself. Your own analysis is written from your own answers.
Questionnaire library
Self
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Self-ReflectionSection 1 free
Ideal Partner Questionnaire
A structured way to get specific about what you actually want in a partner — separating real non-negotiables from checklist items you inherited.
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Self-ReflectionSection 1 free
Stay-or-Go Questionnaire
A structured way to work through where you actually stand in your relationship — honestly, on your own, across seventeen sections.
3
Self-ReflectionSection 1 free
Dating Engagement Patterns Questionnaire
A structured look at how you actually behave on a date — not who you are looking for, but how you show up once you are there.
Partner
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PartnerSection 1 free
The Unfinished Conversation Questionnaire
A structured way to hear what your relationship was really like from a former partner's side — or to answer it yourself, first.
2
PartnerSection 1 free
Long-Distance Relationship Viability Questionnaire
A structured look at whether a long-distance relationship is actually working — trust at a distance, the plan to close it, and the real constraints.
Free to read
Guides for every stage
114 plain-language guides, from first dates to life after a breakup. Free to read, with no account needed.